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Uber·Software Engineer·Onsite - Behavioral / Leadership·Senior

Senior
Apr 2026

Summary

Behavioral round for an EM role at Uber. One question, pretty focused on how you handle disagreement with leadership. Not a lot of small talk, they got right into it.

Questions Asked (1)

Q1

Tell me about a time you disagreed with your manager. What was the disagreement, how did you bring it up, what trade-offs did you consider, and how did it get resolved? What did that experience teach you about pushing back constructively?

Conflict ResolutionStakeholder ManagementAdaptability & Ambiguity
Author's notes

The multi-part structure threw me a bit.

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Suggested Approach

Choose a disagreement where you had a clear, data-backed alternative but the stakes were manageable, and frame it as a collaborative problem-solving moment rather than a conflict. Walk through how you sought to understand your manager's reasoning, presented your case with evidence, and either influenced the decision or committed fully once a call was made. End by highlighting the specific lesson you now apply to future pushback.

Pro tip: Emphasize that you disagreed with the idea, not the person, and show you knew when to escalate versus when to let it go—Uber values engineers who can debate rigorously but still execute decisively once a decision is made.

1. Set the context and stakes

Briefly describe the project, your role, and why the decision mattered—keep it tight so the interviewer understands the disagreement without getting lost in details.

2. Explain the disagreement and your reasoning

State what you and your manager each believed and the evidence or trade-offs behind your position, showing you understood their perspective before advocating for yours.

3. Describe how you raised it

Explain the channel and timing you chose (e.g., a private 1:1, a written doc with data) and how you kept the conversation respectful and focused on the problem.

4. Cover the trade-offs and resolution

Detail the trade-offs you weighed (e.g., speed vs. quality, technical debt, team morale) and how the decision was ultimately reached—whether you persuaded them, compromised, or deferred.

5. Share the lesson and how you apply it

Reflect on what you learned about constructive pushback and give a concrete example of how you've used that lesson since.

Key Points to Mention

  • Used data or concrete evidence (metrics, prototypes, user impact) to support your position rather than opinion.
  • Demonstrated empathy by restating your manager's concerns and the constraints they were under.
  • Chose an appropriate time and private setting to disagree, avoiding public confrontation.
  • Considered trade-offs such as delivery timelines, technical debt, team morale, and business priorities.
  • Committed fully to the final decision once it was made, even if it wasn't your preferred outcome.
  • Articulated a specific lesson about when and how to push back constructively, and how you've applied it since.

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