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Anthropic·Software Engineer·Onsite - Behavioral / Leadership·Senior

Senior
Jun 2026

Summary

Behavioral round at Anthropic for a software engineering role. Just one question but it required a real story, not a generic conflict answer.

Questions Asked (1)

Q1

Tell me about a time you disagreed with someone and had to change your approach to bring them around.

Conflict ResolutionAdaptability & Ambiguity
Author's notes

I had a decent story ready but the part I fumbled was explaining why I changed my approach rather than just what I changed.

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Suggested Approach

Choose a specific technical disagreement where you initially advocated for one solution but later realized the other person had valid points. Show how you adapted your communication style and approach to build consensus, ultimately reaching a better outcome. Emphasize that changing your approach doesn't mean abandoning your principles—it means finding a more effective way to collaborate.

Pro tip: Frame the disagreement as a clash of ideas, not personalities, and highlight what you learned from the other person's perspective. Anthropic values intellectual humility and collaborative problem-solving, so showing you can update your views based on evidence is key.

1. Set the context

Briefly describe the project, your role, and the technical decision that caused disagreement. Keep it concise to focus on the conflict resolution.

2. Explain the disagreement

State your initial position and why you held it, then explain the other person's opposing view and why they held it. Show you understood their perspective.

3. Describe your approach change

Detail how you realized your initial approach wasn't working and what you did differently—e.g., listening more, seeking data, or proposing a compromise.

4. Highlight the resolution

Explain how the change in approach led to a resolution, whether it was adopting their idea, finding a middle ground, or a new solution. Emphasize the positive outcome.

5. Reflect on the learning

Summarize what you learned about collaboration, communication, or technical decision-making, and how you've applied it since.

Key Points to Mention

  • Active listening and empathy for the other person's perspective
  • Willingness to change your mind when presented with new evidence
  • Focus on the problem, not the person (avoid personal attacks)
  • Use of data or prototypes to resolve disagreements objectively
  • Compromise or synthesis of ideas to reach a better solution
  • Growth in self-awareness and communication skills

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